Friday, May 8, 2009

hanging out with the Belly

With the presence of the baby becoming more tangible with visible movements, we find ourselves talking to mini. Waiting for the kicks are getting rewarding. So hanging out with the belly on the weekend seems like a fun thing to do.

Mom has wakeups during the nights, then listens to music or sermons or even youtube Frasier in the attempt to sleep. Why is there no kicking since morning today, baby must be bored...As you see , lots of anxieties.

The words of wisdom from family: Take walks, it will make a healthy baby. So we are off to a stroll on the minuteman trail.

Thursday, May 7, 2009

The six meal solution

Reading through the "six meal solutions" & calcium-protein overlappers (yogurt), makes you feel how little we are thinking or eating healthy. For now, we are loading the lunch bag with triple fruit load, jelly on wheat-wich and the entree itself. Some days I sneak in a zip-load of baby carrots, but they invariably come back home. Apparently it takes too much time to eat them.

The nature's best source of calcium, is thankfully mom's choice drink & cereal base. 1% Milk. The motivation reached its peak when collard-green was suggested in the grocery list. Well, I didn't want to miss the chance, collard-green it was. With great fan-fare we made collard with shredded coconut sprinkles to tone it down. It was just a little more bitter that mustard-greens. So we are back to square one. I tried collard, mixed with tuna for lunch... the lunch box found its way home, half empty, half full.

In its hay days a pint of ice-cream found its way to the freezer, but the cravings took a U-turn 1/3rd of the way. Now the ice-cream finds itself neglected. Same story with pickles, apples & orange-juice

Smoothie are a big hit, so are cranberry juice, pears & oranges (if they are super sweet). So we have checked off protein, carbs, vitamin C, omega+, calcium from the daily dose; with minimal red meat, all the iron has to come from the prenatal pill. phew, Are we missing anything?

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Let it sink in

Now the fact has sunken in, we can feel the presence of the little one in our thoughts, talks and recently at the dinner-table.

Initially the thought was that the bulge attracts too much attention. So let us layer it.
No hiding of the belly now, at work, with friends or at church.
Did I mentioned that, mom's T shirt now says "I love my bump"

Mini is perfecting the yawning & hiccups here: 

3D Mini

This 3D rendering from the ultrasound waves was the best.
Mom says "Cutest sight I have ever seen, ... mini must be photo-shy"



Its already been a long way, from cherry to grapefruit to cantaloupe. 12 ounces. In two weeks mini will be mini-no-more , a whole pound.

visual in 3D

Finally, we have the detailed ultrasound:





The Radiologist was happy with the anatomical result, for us it was the happiest day ! Thanking God for the healthy results.

On our first visit, they could not profile all the details, apparently mini was having her/his cards close to the chest. On the second visit, two weeks later, mini was in better mood. Here's another side profile, with a hand in view :





Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Should we be

Parenting jitters has kicked in already.
Here's few samples from our dilemma-list, Should we be:
- taking him/her to baseball/ballet classes or guitar/violin lessons
- searching for a least-tongue twisting indian name or biblical english name
- teach first words in malayalam or english. Tri-lingual will be great, but challenging.
- open a baby login in gmail or facebook
- buy a bouncy-seat or PackNPlay-station
- start saving for Pre-K or college फंड

well, we'll see

amazing !

  Finally the flutter happened, last week, phew, we are almost sure that it was it. Now I tried with my ear on the belly waiting for the kick, ahaan, nope, mini must be really mini, for me to detect the motion. 
  Here's the line of the day from mom "enikku ellam week oru milestone madiriya." , aka "for me every week is a milestone". It indeed is. You don't realize it until you go through it. They say that the physical identity of the child is already expressed; even biometrics like fingerprints ..amazing.